Mom & Me & Mom by Maya Angelou

I am going to start this post by saying that I don't often read biographies. Why? I don't know. Maybe I prefer to escape reality instead of confronting it? Regardless of my motives, I have been wanting to join Emma Watson's Our Shared Shelf Book Club and this is the November/December 2016 pick. So, I snagged it at the library!

I am a bad reader sometimes...I had never read anything Maya Angelou had written before. I know, I know. Bad librarian! This book has certainly changed that for me, however. I'm very much looking forward to adding more Angelou to my book repertoire. This book was published just before Angelou's 85th birthday and is the last book she ever wrote. Mom & Me & Mom is 200 pages packed with a story strong on emotion and I was able to blaze through it in an afternoon.

Mom & Me & Mom is a biography of Maya Angelou's relationship with her larger-than-life mother, Vivian Baxter, who ran gambling houses across the country. From the ages of 3 to 13, Maya and her brother, Bailey, lived with their grandmother, who seemed well-suited to care for the siblings due to their parents' shortcomings. When she was thirteen, she and her brother were brought back to their mother and stepfather, but it was not without it's problems. They saw their mother as a beautiful lady, not a mother, and that certainly tainted their relationship at the start. As Maya got older, she learned to embrace her mother's strength and feminism. And, essentially, this book addresses the myriad ways that Maya learned how to be such a strong woman because of her mother.Throughout the book, you can feel Maya's gratitude to her mother for showing her that a young, single, African American woman can be somebody. She taught her not to let a white-centric society define who she was and who she could be. It was such an uplifting message, even during the sad times Maya and her mother experienced (abuse, teen pregnancy, racism).

No matter where Maya went and what she did, her mother was there for her supporting her. Vivian worked hard to show Maya that she was strong and capable, and if things got bad, to simply call on her mom for help. Throughout the book, you can see the evolution from initial estrangement and distance, to the solid foundation that lasted throughout the rest of their lives. It was a beautiful thing to witness and I absolutely look forward to reading her other books.

Furiously Happy (Part Two)

Meet the Family, Dan, Nicole, Lady Katherine
and Lord Destructor the Untamable (aka Gizmo)

I realize if you've been following our blog you've already read a review of Furiously Happy and have probably already added it to your reading list because Meg spoke so highly of it.  However, if you somehow missed putting it on hold at your local library or purchasing it I would recommend doing so now. Don't worry.  I'll wait.

Good.  Now that you've got a copy heading toward you in some manner I'll just tell you what makes this book so amazing.  Jenny Lawson has mental illness and blogs about her life. In reading this she has helped me to laugh at a lot of the things I find myself struggling with some days, and to maybe feel a little less crazy.  Perhaps one thing it does do is help me appreciate my husband a little more, who has no problem that Gizmo has not one, but two theme songs (Lady Katherine is harder to get a good rhythm and rhyming for, but I'm working on it, it's a work in progress).

While I don't own a koala costume to cuddle koalas in Australia, I honestly don't see any problem with the desire to look like a koala and cuddle a koala at the same time.  Similarly I don't have any taxidermized animals to talk to or have sneak over Dan's shoulder as he's on a video call with someone, but again, I wouldn't be surprised if I would do such things.

Near the end of the book Lawson is getting ready to go out and her husband tells her she looks okay, not good, but okay.  So she decides she must change her clothes because Victor, her husband, was not paying her a compliment by saying she looked okay.  He responds by saying he likes her skin because it keeps her organs from falling on the carpet.  I cannot tell you how hard I laughed at this line and how quickly I snapped a picture of the page to send to Dan.  He once told me that he liked my green shirt because green is like grass and my hair is brown like dirt so I look like earth, I wouldn't be surprised if this had come from his mouth.

As Meg pointed out in her review months ago, Lawson is wonderful to read and captures the essence of living with anxiety for the "normals" out there.

Eight Hundred Grapes

Synchronize (verb) "to occur at the same time or coincide or agree in time" (Online Etymology Dictionary).

Much of our lives are left to chance, in spite of perfect planning one cannot prepare for the weather, the actions of another, and as I learned while reading this book, the making of wine. We cannot control the rain or the weather, just as we cannot control the actions of others.

In Eight Hundred Grapes Georgia is one week away from her wedding that is set to take place at her parents' vineyard.  She finds her fiancee is keeping the knowledge of a daughter from her as well as meetings with his ex-wife.  She realizes this as she is trying on her wedding dress and flees the city, heading home.

Upon returning home she finds her family is also struggling in their relationships and realizes the importance of home and family.  Weeks have passed since I read this book and I'm still thinking about it, still wanting to try putting chocolate in lasagna and to enjoy (just one more) glass of wine.

In short, read this book, especially if you have a love of wine, it will probably help increase that love.


synchronize. (n.d.). Online Etymology Dictionary. Retrieved December 22, 2015 from Dictionary.com website http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/synchronize

Orbiting Jupiter by Gary D. Schmidt

What on Earth can I say about this book besides, “WOW!” I don’t often feel extreme emotions when I read but the content and the writing and the raw emotion felt like an unstoppable hurricane blasting through my heart. This novel has a little bit of everything: bullying, stereotypes, adventures on ice (not in a good way), love and romance, family, and, of course, the milking of cows. Who could possibly not want to read it!? 

I had ordered the book for all 18 of my district library’s branches because the reviews were astounding in the selection journals we subscribe to. Honestly, though, I didn’t have much interested in reading it personally. But, at a CATS (Children’s and Teen Services) upcoming book conference this week, I actually got a free copy of the title. AND!! The author spoke with us and did a reading. Maybe it was the fact that I was able to hear the background that led to the author writing Orbiting Jupiter or maybe it was because I was hearing it read exactly how Schmidt intended it. Either way, he hooked me instantly. Schmidt is a tremendous story teller and I felt every single emotion of the character Joseph as if it were my own. Not because we had been through anything similar…we hadn’t. It is simply that Schmidt can tell one hell of a tale. His words were few but exceedingly well-chosen and powerful. He gave this “throwaway” kid a second chance when most wouldn’t give him a second glance. 

Schmidt told us that he had attended a book talk for reluctant readers, but was not informed in advance that it was at a correctional facility for juvenile males. While he was there, he had the chance to get to know some of the boys and, in a non-direct way, based his latest, Orbiting Jupiter, on the experience of meeting kids that society had just thrown aside. 

Here’s what the publisher says about Orbiting Jupiter: 

The two-time Newbery Honor winner Gary D. Schmidt delivers the shattering story of Joseph, a father at thirteen, who has never seen his daughter, Jupiter. After spending time in a juvenile facility, he’s placed with a foster family on a farm in rural Maine. Here Joseph, damaged and withdrawn, meets twelve-year-old Jack, who narrates the account of the troubled, passionate teen who wants to find his baby at any cost. In this riveting novel, two boys discover the true meaning of family and the sacrifices it requires.

I kind of think that the less you know going in, the better. Just be prepared to feel all the feels and have your tissues handy. Oh, and while the book is only 183 pages long and you’ll read it in one sitting, it’ll drain your immortal soul like a 1200 page epic. Just sayin.’ Now go get it from your local library and prepare to have your heart ripped out and stomped all over...but maybe in a good way.

Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things by Jenny Lawson

 

Happiest garbage panda ever.

One-Line Summary: Holy Hell. That was a serious rollercoaster ride through the mind of me…only written by someone else. 

 

I’m not going lie and say the book sounded amazing and I had to read it based on the description because that would be a partial lie. While the description was intriguing, it was the cover that sucked me in. Look at the gloriousness of the raccoon (his name is Rory, by the way). He looks, as the title states, furiously happy. I had to read it. 

If you don’t know who Jenny Lawson is, you aren’t alone. I had no clue that she had even written another book before this one titled Let’s Pretend This Never Happened, which I am now reading and digging. Let me see if I can sum up Ms. Lawson: quirky, hilarious, slightly-to-moderately crazy (she calls herself crazy often) genius, and master of sharing too much embarrassing information about herself. In short, I’m smitten. 

In Furiously Happy, I found myself feeling a range of emotions and nodding my head along wondering why no one talks about the important things, like how airports transform people into assholes, or why we don’t talk about the widespread epidemic of chlamydia in koalas, or what happens to all that skin that microdermabrasion places scrape off women’s faces, or why kangaroos actually have three vaginas. I often found myself wondering why I had never thought of such outlandish things when I’m suffering from my sporadic bouts of insomnia, and believe me, my mind goes to some weird places.  Lawson isn’t afraid to face these topics head-on, and I love her for it.

Lawson is a riot to read. Her chapters are short and sweet, and fly by incredibly quickly. Her prose is snappy and lightning-quick and, if you blink, you are sure to miss the humor and sarcasm. The stories of Lawson’s marriage are probably my favorite. They are packed with love and a little outrage, too, but mostly love. Her stories of therapy are fascinating, a little humorous and sometimes cringe-worthy. This is a book celebrating and explaining her various mental illnesses, after all. As someone who has battled both depression and anxiety, I just want to say that she nails the descriptions of each in a way that “normals” will be able to better understand. She sheds light on the taboo of talking about mental illness and makes people feel less alone in their neuroticisms which, in my small opinion, are the biggest reasons to recommend this book to all my library friends and readers.

Me Before You & After You

You know those books that truly piss you off when you finish it? Me Before You was one that truly made me angry.  When I heard there was a sequel coming out (After You), I had decided there was no way I would read it, as I was still too upset about the ending from the first. For some reason I decided to put it on hold, despite not wanting to read it (perhaps it was because I enjoyed the first so much) and read it over the last two days. Once again my heart was broken, filled with hope, and longing.

The series follows the life of Louisa Clark, a quirky late twenties who lives with her parents. She gets a job as a helper to Will Traynor, a quadriplegic who used to do everything and now he can’t even get dressed or feed himself. Will gave up on living and Lou took it upon herself to determine how best to change his mind. Even though it has been over a year since I read the first novel I couldn’t help but miss these wonderful characters.  Despite Will’s constant complaining about his inability to do anything and his want to end his life and Lou’s constant need to take care of everyone else I couldn’t help but love these characters.  

For fear of ruining the story I won’t share anymore details but I do highly encourage everyone to read this book.  If you talk to Meg (or Paige Turner, whatever it is she is going by these days) don’t listen to what she has to say about it.  She had a difficult time getting into it, though I would imagine if she was in the right mood she would love it too.

Fox and O'Hare

I (Nicole), have a confession to make.  I’m not actually a librarian yet.  I still have the rest of this semester and one more before I’ll be done with my degree.  That being said most of my reading until I finish is fluff.  I read enough books that make me have to think for my classes, I don’t really care to think when I’m reading for fun.  Besides, in all reality I probably shouldn’t be reading too much for fun either.

All this to say I have really enjoyed the Fox and O’Hare series by Janet Evanovich with Lee Goldberg.  Evanovich is the same author who has brought us the Stephanie Plum series, but this one seems to have a little more variance in each story.

The Heist begins with FBI agent Kate O’Hare who is searching for Nicholas Fox, a professional con artist.  She ends up catching him after years of searching, only for him to get out due to another agent’s failure to follow all rules.  At this point the rules change and they become teammates and work to take down other con artists, using the FBI’s resources and Fox’s expertise.  

As with Stephanie Plum these books are page turners, filled with humor and a lot of drama.  The stories aren’t complex and never once was I trying to figure out what was happening, unless of course, that was the author’s intent.  The sexual tension between Kate and Nick is so thick you could cut it with a knife, but thus far nothing has happened, just enough romance to keep me wanting more.  I laughed a lot and read them despite having a house to clean and piles of homework to do, please don’t tell my husband.  I’m pretty sure he thought I was being a responsible grown-up at the moment.  All in all, I recommend this series to anyone wanting a quick, funny read with a little mystery thrown in.

**Views expressed are my own and don’t necessarily coincide with my employer**